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Personal Vows

#1 AI Vow Writer

Personal Vows — Write Heartfelt Personal Vows, In Your Own Words

You have the feelings but not the exact words. A few questions, four real drafts — and nothing that reads like AI.

  • No account
  • Read the opening before you pay
  • Nothing is invented

Nothing yet. This is the page everybody stares at.

Where you are now

The winter the boiler broke, you wore my coat indoors for eleven days and never once said it was hard.

You made tea you didn’t want so the kitchen would be warm when I got in.

Where you’ll be

Four drafts of it, large print, and the wallet card.

Your vows, and every sheet you’ll read them from.

Four real drafts

Story-led, short & concise, long & thoughtful, light-hearted. Four ways in to one story — not four rewordings.

The read-aloud page

Large print, a promise to a paragraph, never split across a page turn — with an honest speaking-pace timing.

The wallet card

85 × 55 mm, as much of the vow as fits, cut where a sentence ends. Prints at home, ready to cut out.

The editor

Change any line in place, highlight a phrase to rewrite it, take it back with one tap. The page and the card re-print to match.

Nothing is invented

Only what you told us appears. A missing detail becomes a bracketed blank you fill in — never an invented memory.

Private by design

No account and no sign-up. Your answers are encrypted, never sold, and deleted 12 months after you buy.

How it works

You answer

A few questions about the two of you — how you met, the story you always end up telling, what you’re promising. One question at a time, at your own pace.

You read four

Four genuinely different drafts, around 150 to 300 words each. Read them out loud — it’s the only test that counts.

You keep one

Edit any line, ask for it warmer or shorter or plainer, then print the page and the card.

What it costs

One payment. No subscription, and nothing to cancel.

One of you

$39

Your vows, in your words — and the pages to read them from.

  • One questionnaire, one question at a time
  • Four drafts, around 150 to 300 words each
  • The read-aloud page and the wallet card
  • Line edits and fresh prints for 12 months

Both of you

$59

You each answer your own, and you each write your own — in your own words.

  • Two questionnaires, answered separately
  • Four drafts each, from your own answers
  • Two read-aloud pages and two wallet cards
  • Line edits and fresh prints for 12 months

You read the opening of a real draft before you decide.

Questions worth asking first

Will these read like AI wrote them, or like everyone else’s vows?

That worry is the right one, and it is the one this is built against. The drafts are written from your answers and from nothing else — the words you reach for, the length your sentences actually run — and we check them back against what you gave us before you ever see them. Nothing stock, nothing borrowed from other couples, no phrase you would never say. Then you read every line aloud and change whatever is not yours.

Is this written by AI?

Partly, and here is the whole of it. You answer questions about the two of you. A language model writes four drafts from those answers and from nothing else. Then you read them out loud, change the lines that are not yours, and keep what you actually mean. It will not invent a memory, a name or a date — anything we were not told comes back as a bracket for you to fill in. The blank page is the part we take. The promise stays yours.

Is any of this religious?

Only if you say so. One question asks whether you want your vows secular, religious, or a mix of the two, and which tradition if either — and nothing is assumed before you answer it, in either direction.

What do you do with what I wrote about us?

Your answers and your drafts are encrypted, are never logged, and are never sold or used to train anything of ours. They are deleted along with the rest of your session at the end of your access window, or sooner if you ask us.

How long can I get back in?

12 months from the day you buy. Your link works on any device for that whole time — read them again, change a line, print a fresh page. We email you before the window closes, and then everything is deleted.

Can I get a refund?

Yes. Within 30 days of buying, write to support@personalvows.com and we refund it — no form to fill in and no explanation required.

My partner wants to write theirs too.

That is the $59 price: two questionnaires, two sets of vows, one payment. You each answer your own, at your own pace, and neither set is written from the other one.

Do I have to print anything?

No. The read-aloud page and the card both work on a phone held open at full brightness. Paper is steadier in a wind and does not dim halfway through, which is the only reason it is the default.

Done worrying about what to say

You don’t have to know how it ends yet. You have to answer one question, and then the next one.

No account. Nothing to install.